Saturday, October 8, 2016

Julius

Once upon a time, there was a boy who caught grasshoppers that were beautiful and brave, and let them go. One time, he caught one with only one hind leg. He put him in a jar and punched holes in the lid, and he called the grasshopper 'Julius.' He cared for Julius for three weeks, changing the grass often. The boy loved the creature. His mother didn't. Then Julius died. The boy loved model cars and had a model hearse with a little coffin. Julius would lie in state for an evening and then he and his coffin were inserted in the hearse. Soon, the boy grew into a teenage young man and forgot the hearse and the coffin and Julius, and the three were tucked into drawer with all the other model cars. Years later, when it was time to inspect and dispose of anything that appeared broken or unwanted, the not-so-young teenage man found the hearse, then the coffin, then Julius. The brave creature was still intact. The young man still admired him. The young man's mother did not. That was the last time I - I mean - the young man saw Julius, the coffin, and the hearse.



     
"Haven't seen a beautiful
grasshopper like this in ages!
So cool!
What a brave creature!"
~ Jackie Wasylkiw Bonanno
 
Silly? I don't think so. Have you ever had a memory come to the surface? Was it hidden for a few decades? Memories are therapy. Jackie was the inspiration, though she was not there during those boy and teenage young man years. On this day in early October, Jackie was inspired by a grasshopper. A 'perfect picture' weather day, and an ordinary creature...and her photo and quote transformed into a real cool Facebook post. Her excitement in showing her 'new friend' to me...it was contagious. A simple memory; a 'boy' story; a cherished, beautiful Mom. Jackie's eulogy to Julius went like this: "St. Julius! Patron saint of one-legged grasshoppers!" I love her style! I  love memories.


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